If there is one fun activity that is easy for mummy and him to do it is reading and chatting, I read to him and then he attempts to read it to me ,totally his own will.
In fact he and I are so interested in reading, books and chatting we are embarking in some research by a Language acquisition researcher for the university of Liverpool, Ben Aldridge, who is writing a book on "Small talk-Understanding your child's language development (and how you can help)". I have to agree with Nigel Latta, author of Politically Incorrect parenting, when on discussing baby sign language his response is "are you kidding me? Sign language for babies? What on earth could a small incontinent person who has never been anywhere, done anything of consequence, have to say that could be of any possible interest?". I see little point in learning Baby sign language at all unless you or a child is actually deaf. If we have the power of speech, verbal and non verbal gestures then why not focus on teaching that. Fortunately The Small Talk programme is all for talking! My only time I dabbled in baby sign language is when I thought it might be a useful thing to learn for the long term in communication as I myself have British Sign language qualifications. However my son decided he would just say "Apple" rather than mucking about with unnecessary energy required in signing!
I will let you know of our antics, fun and games in this very interesting research.
In the mean time the Ladybird Peter and Jane reading scheme books are out for tomorrow, my mother taught my siblings and I to read on this scheme and it still seems a timeless system to me, I can not abide the Phonetic reading system, probably because I just do not understand the science behind it being easier for a child to understand the word "apple" by phonetically pronouncing every letter of the word and the using of some ridiculous gesture that seems to go alongside with different letters in the phonetic programme. Perhaps Mr Aldridge will explain to me how this system is better than simply just route learning and perceiving words through regular exposure and use of a word in different contexts.
Christopher has a three tiered bookcase loaded with books, roll on the Kindle for children because it is ridiculous the amount of books lying around his bedroom by mid day, a total hazard for me on crutches! Here is a list of his favourites past and present, they are some you might want to check out in a library for free or very cheaply online!
Both my sisters son and ours loves this story. The fantastic illustrations followed by a great poem story just make for a great combination along with a story of emotions. From www.walker.co.uk |
I have to say once a child gets crawling the disabled parents job gets a lot tougher, however reading is constantly loved by a little one and gives you time to stay still for a good few minuets and read to your child. We read about fifteen books a day because trying to keep small man out of mischief is tricky when immobile and the more books we can ballance on the bed to keep him entertained, the better, sometimes the bed looks like a game of Jenga! I thank god for the library or we would be broke!!!!
Our son enjoying looking at a few books! |
Some of these suggestions are fantastic and will definitely be on my list for my daughter. I am a disabled parent too and my youngest daughter is disabled as well so reading to her is something I can do and enjoy. She has severe learning difficulties meaning she operates on the level of an 18m month - 2 year old (she is 9) but when I read to her she will happily sit and look at the books (while trying to grab them!) so she must get something from it.
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Books really are an essential bit of parenting kit, my sister who at the time was a single parent got me to read stacks of books to her son to just give her a moment to have a shower and for him to actually sit still, now for my son they are totally required for both my hubby and I who have physical disabilities. It's the only time my husband can sit is when I am reading.
ReplyDeleteI honestly believe that reading to a child whatever their difficulties is so important, it stimulates them, it is relaxing, a chance to cuddle up with mum and feel safe. I have to say as a physically disabled child I never really got into reading, really because I found sitting up anywhere for too long really painful and then trying to hold a book in lobster hands difficult , technology makes reading easier for me these days. Enjoy the books they really are so much better than in our day! Thanks for commenting x
All the Julia Donaldson books are good, my 18 month old and 5 year old both love them. Also check out 'the book people' website for good deals
ReplyDeleteI see book people keep coming up when I search " Children's book" so I shall do that, many thanks for the suggestion.
DeleteThe great thing about Julia Donaldson is that the books are as much fun for an adult to read to a child as they are too look at for a toddler. The ladybird book is great for those children who love to hunt for a microscopic ladybird in a big page of fun farm cartoon animals, I just can not fault the book.